"I
was surprised to find the people at the desk waiting for me when I checked in
for my first shift! They had a patient who was unaccompanied and really wanted
a doula. At that time she was in very early labor and after we talked for a
while we decided that I would go home and they would call me in when she was
farther along. In the end I went in to accompany her at her C-section. I tried
to stay focused on the mother's needs and out of the way as much as possible.
So much of this is new to me, I wasn't sure if I was any help at all, but the
postpartum visit the next day was very encouraging. I am amazed at how calm and
brave this first-time mother was with each thing that happened, and I feel
grateful she let me be part of her daughter's birth. I didn't get to help much
at all with contractions and physical comfort measures, but maybe it was also
important that a friend be next to her and witness whatever happened-- someone
there just to be with her."