"This
was a great experience for me. The nurse was very welcoming and inclusive, and
already had a great rapport with the new parents. Mom was in early labor when I
arrived, so we were able to chat quite a bit. She was doing well when I
arrived, and was able to get a little rest. I helped her with breathing, and
normalizing what she was experiencing. When the nurses had a shift change, I
was very happy to be there to offer continuity for the parents, as this is
right when labor was starting to heat up. After the doctor broke her water, the
contractions became very intense, and although mom had strongly wanted a
pain-med free birth, she started asking about an epidural. Nurse, dad and I all
pitched in to encourage and support her, and baby was born about an hour after
that - without pain meds! The parents were very happy and proud, and they had
worked hard! I was so thrilled to be there with them. I also got to help with
breastfeeding a bit, and it was the first time I felt knowledgeable enough and
comfortable to do so. It was pretty much an ideal experience for me, as I know
I provided a benefit to them and they were thankful. I wish I could have
visited them the next day, but the snowstorm kept me at home. I talked to mom
briefly on the phone, so we got closure that way."